"You are not a victim for sharing your story. You are a survivor setting the world on fire with your truth."
As much as it is important to understand and learn about narcissists, it is equally important to learn about ourselves. I highly recommend this book for anyone that has been subject to narcissistic abuse, especially recurring relationships that seem to end in disaster. As a recovered codependent, this book was instrumental in my recovery. In…
I recall telling my friends early on in my recovery, “The dogs are her world. Carol would never do anything to harm the dogs.” This was a sincere belief that I held because our life together was all about the dogs. It was the one thing that I never dreamed she would use as a…
Wishing everyone some happy thoughts and encouragement. Many people are familiar with Linda Ronstadt’s “Poor, Poor Pitiful Me”. There have been several covers of this. Here is one from Anne Louise Blythe.
I cannot think of truer words than this today.
As I previously have posted, one of the first signs of “pure evil” that my covert narcissist acted upon was euthanizing my oldest dog (Slater) while I was fighting an order of protection: An order of protection that was later withdrawn with prejudice minutes before my requested trial. I would later learn that she did…
I recall, some years ago, when my step-son was attending college and did not invite his mother (my covert narcissist ex) to his college graduation. Admittedly, this bothered me a great deal. As such, I drove down to where he was living in the hopes of mediating a solution. When I confronted him, his exact…
In previous blog posts, I have highlighted a couple of important points: A common tactic of the narcissist is to leverage the family court system to make your life miserable. The family court system is the ideal system for the narcissist as they can easily obtain a family court order of protection with no evidence….
As I continue my journey, I am trying to put less emphasis on the narcissist (because they really aren’t worth it) and more focus on my new life. So here is a song that speaks to love and a happy future.
With legal disclaimers out of the way (something I will get into momentarily), I want to take some time to ensure awareness of how evil and calculating narcissists can be. I balance my time on my blog and on Quora. I frequently see questions about confronting and exposing narcissists. I honestly don’t recommend confronting or…
Invariably, there are people in this world, especially narcissists, that may not like the content that I post and attempt to have my blog shutdown or my content removed. As such, I feel compelled to provide a legal disclaimer for such individuals. So, here you go… Nature Of My Site & Posts I believe I…