As I previously have posted, one of the first signs of “pure evil” that my covert narcissist acted upon was euthanizing my oldest dog (Slater) while I was fighting an order of protection: An order of protection that was later withdrawn with prejudice minutes before my requested trial. I would later learn that she did this within one week of my being forced out of my home. Having not had the opportunity or been alerted to any health issues with my oldest dog that warranted this, my mind drew back to her original message she sent to me about the dogs as I was getting ready to board a flight home from Cheyenne; completely unaware of the “shit storm” I was about to walk into for the next year.
In particular, this is what she stated about the dogs:
As if it were a “guardian angel”, I felt compelled to go to a website where we previously adopted one of our dogs, Violet. Imagine my surprise when the person who claimed the dogs “are my world” put one and possibly two of the three remaining dogs up for adoption. I was greeted with these photos that were unmistakable as to the fact that they were my family pets that she has been entrusted to care for as we navigate through the divorce.
Now one might claim there must be a valid reason. I can assure you there is not. Neither her or the dogs living situation has changed. As she refuses to seek employment, she literally has all day to simply care for the dogs as she has done for years. So, it begs the question as to why one would secretly put dogs up for adoption knowing full well that she could contact her attorney (or me for that matter) and a viable solution could have been found. This would have been the right and proper thing to do, especially since these two dogs are bonded because of previous abuse that occurred prior to our adopting them.
As I have pointed out over and over again, this is how evil narcissists can get. These dogs did nothing to her, yet she chose to discard them. I immediately contacted my attorney and I have been told that “they are on it.” More to come, but let this be a lesson learned for anyone considering the thought that they should “stick it out” with a narcissist.
